OK so here's the deal.  We all have our own opinions on many issues and here are some on mine.  I do not say I am a great leader.  I will say I have over 20 years experience in leading social groups. I  have made about every mistake a person can make .  So take it or leave it this is just my take on things I see around me.

"To be allowed to Dominate is the ultimate gift"

What greater gift could a person give, then themselves.

To be allowed to possess some one is a gift with no equal and carries with it the full trust of the Sub. 

As a Dominant the task we accept is to find the Subs limits, help her grow in the lifestyle and nurture her mind and body.

"Domination through Sensual Seduction"

There are many types of Domination my style is very sensual.  I look at a scene as a seduction a dance a test of your Subs limits.  I find with every encounter in the lifestyle I have the more I learn about myself.  Life is an ongoing experience in learning. The more I learn the better Dominant I become.