**This information is TRUE in that
it was used with a real submissive a few years ago. Mistress
Ruby uses this format to provide information to her potential
submissives.
Information that the Sub should know in
advance:
1. Everything we do will be consentual
2. There will be no bondage until the
submissive feels safe
3. All parties must be agreement about what we
do. That means our significant others or spouses. Due to the
fact that people often lie about “open relationships” it is
necessary for me to speak in person to the submissive’s
partner. I will not be party to adultery in any form.
4. If it agreed on all sides that sex may
occur, there will be no exchange of fluids. Only safe sex.
5. Your privacy and personal life will be
respected in all ways.
6. There will be no drugs or alcohol involved.
7. I can provide you with references if you
wish.
8. There will be no permanent physical damage
of any sort.
The First Meeting
During the first meeting we will meet for
dinner just as friends. I will provide you with some information
to think about prior to meeting. I won’t order you around or
do anything overtly dominant until we have agreed that is what
we want. The most important thing we need to discover if if we
like each other enough to spend time together.
These are the topics we will need to review:
1. Interests, limits, and Safewords.
2. Themes of interest
3. Whether or not sex will be considered.
Birth control.
4. Sign agreement so that both parties will be
protected in case of a misunderstanding.
5. Minor costs involved for dinner (which you
pay for), toys etc.
6. How often we will meet.
The First Scene:
Submissive will pick me up at my house on time
and take me to dinner. He will bring flowers and a BDSM toy gift
of good quality. He will be dressed well in masculine clothing.
He will be clean both inside and out. I will provide other
directions as needed.
When you arrive you are to refer to me only as
Mistress Ruby. Anything else will be cause for punishment. You
will keep your eyes cast down at all times unless I tell you
otherwise. You will not speak unless I tell you to. You will end
all statements with “Mistress.”
Your safewords are Green, Yellow and RED.
Green means “I want more please.” Yellow means “please
slow down.”. RED means “STOP, I need to discuss this with
you.” Do not use RED unless you cannot go on.
As soon as you have entered and closed the
door you will kneel on the floor, spread your knees as far apart
as possible and place your hands behind your back.
You will memorize and recite the following:
“Mistress Ruby:
My body belongs to you. Every part belongs to
you including my mouth, my tongue, my nipples, my penis, my
balls, my asshole and my bottom.
Every part of my body and mind and spirit is
at your disposal.
Please use me as you will.”
